Abuse in dating relationships is common among teens. Teen dating abuse is like domestic violence in adults in that it also is a pattern of abusive behavior used to control another person. Teen dating abuse can include emotional or mental abuse, sexual abuse and physical abuse.

For teens, relationship abuse often takes the form of extreme possessiveness and jealousy. Abusers try to manipulate their dating partners by making all the decisions, putting them down in front of friends, threatening to kill themselves, stalking them or forcing them to have sex.
Like adult domestic violence, teen relationship abuse affects all types of teens, regardless of their how much money their parents make, what their grades are, how they look or dress, their religion or their race. Teen relationship abuse also occurs in heterosexual, gay and lesbian relationships.

Unlike adult domestic violence in which women are more often the victim, in teen relationship abuse both boys and girls report abuse about equally in countries which collect such data. Boys, however, tend to start the violence more often and to use greater force.
The pattern of abuse in teens is often similar to adult abuse with repeated violence that escalates over time. Often, the abuser quickly apologizes and promises to change. Sometimes teens do not have the experience or maturity to recognize that they are involved in an abusive relationship.
Relationship abuse not only poses direct dangers for teens but also puts them at risk for other problems. Teens who experience violent relationship abuse are more likely to take risks sexually, do poorly in school and use drugs and alcohol. Girls are at higher risk for pregnancy and suicide attempts.

If you think you might be in an abusive relationship, talk to your parents or another adult family member, a school counselor or teacher, or call the Family Hope Network at 497-2317, 235-6551 or 497-3763.

Let’s break the cycle and stop the violence.
Adapted from Web MD.
The Family Hope Network is a non-government coalition, the aim of which is to help end the cycle of Domestic Violence in all its forms in Anguilla through multi-disciplinary partnership.

If you need help or are interested in working with the Family Hope Network, call 497-2317, 235-6551 or 497-3763.

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